Mindset Unlimited: Tips, Tools, and Inspiration for Women in a Time of Change

How Do I Motivate Working On MY Projects? [coaching episode]

Season 1 Episode 33

"How do I motivate working on MY projects, especially as my work gets busy?" asks the woman in this episode. She is a CPA in a small town with her own tax and accounting practice that has exploded in the past 3 years. Recently divorced, she was not expecting her business to grow so quickly at this point in her career. She has lots of creative hobbies she wants to work on but when she’s done with work for the day she finds herself watching tv rather than engaging any of her other interests. Her hope in signing up for a session was to have more clarity on how to spend time on things for herself. 

In this episode of Unlimited, you’ll hear us unpack the notions of laziness and lack of motivation to explore the root of where energy is going and how to make room for YOU too.

Some of what we engage in this episode include:

  • Mental energy and allocating resources
  • Setting boundaries with clients and yourself around work time
  • Identifying a difficult client avatar and ideal client avatar
  • When hobbies become draining
  • Attachment to outcomes even when you know better
  • Cultivating a relationship with yourself

This client isn’t unique in her struggle. We’re not taught and in many ways are actively discouraged from having a healthy relationship with ourselves. Women in particular are fed a message that we are supposed to put ourselves on the back burner to take care of others (from our family to our work) and just doing so should give us all we need. Except that’s not how it works. You only have so much energy to give and you certainly deserve some of that allocation! 


Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  @unlimitedcoachval

I love to hear your thoughts and I'm always happy to answer any questions.

You can send me an email at valerie@valeriefriedlander.com or DM me on Instagram

AND don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast!
  

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE:
Apply to be coached for free on the podcast
Sign up for a private session with accountability follow up
Schedule a FREE exploration call

CONNECT WITH VALERIE:
Facebook
Instagram
Get email updates!
Work with Valerie!

Send me a text!

Support the show

Podcasts we love

Check out these other fine podcasts recommended by us, not an algorithm.

Queer News Artwork

Queer News

E3 Radio
Small But Mighty Agency: How to Grow Your Agency Artwork

Small But Mighty Agency: How to Grow Your Agency

Audrey Joy Kwan | Growth Strategist for Agencies
Disrupt Your Money Artwork

Disrupt Your Money

Meg K. Wheeler
Empowered & Embodied Show Artwork

Empowered & Embodied Show

Kim Romain & Louise Neil
The Air We Breathe: Finding Well-Being That Works for You Artwork

The Air We Breathe: Finding Well-Being That Works for You

Heather Sayers Lehman, MS, NBC-HWC, NASM-CPT, CSCS, CIEC, CWP
The Passionistas Project Podcast Artwork

The Passionistas Project Podcast

Pop Culture Passionistas
Business as UNusual Artwork

Business as UNusual

BiCurean Consulting
The Clarity Shift Artwork

The Clarity Shift

Miriam Raquel Sands | Clarity + Alignment
Cozy Conversations with The Sister Project Artwork

Cozy Conversations with The Sister Project

Lauren Massarella and Michelle Anderson
The Empress and The Fool Artwork

The Empress and The Fool

Sarah Dittmore & Kaitlyn Gulock
The Good Pod Artwork

The Good Pod

Jason Reed and Marissa Garza
Gratitude Geek | Business Education for Gen X Women Solopreneurs Artwork

Gratitude Geek | Business Education for Gen X Women Solopreneurs

Kandas Rodarte | Gen X Growth Coach for Women Solopreneurs
Mental Health Warrior & Neurodivergent Advocate Artwork

Mental Health Warrior & Neurodivergent Advocate

Amy D. Taylor | Mental Health Warrior & Neurodivergent Advocate
Was It Chance? Artwork

Was It Chance?

Alan Seales, Heather Vickery & Broadway Podcast Network
White Homework Artwork

White Homework

Tori Williams Douglass, Benjamin Faye
Playing Big with Lindsay Johnson Artwork

Playing Big with Lindsay Johnson

Lindsay Johnson, The Radical Connector
Working Your Way Artwork

Working Your Way

Sandhya Sudhakar