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Relearning Self-Love

Valerie Friedlander Season 1 Episode 11

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There is A LOT going on right now. It’s heavy and draining yet you don’t want to get sucked into the yuck. You want to be a light in the darkness. You want to show up for the people who you love and the things that really matter. Your relationship with yourself is the foundation for your relationship with everyone and everything else, however it tends to be the thing we poke holes in first.

In this episode of Unlimited, I’m diving into actively cultivating self-love, especially in times when things feel out of control.

Some of what I’ll cover in this episode include:

  • The difference between self-love and self-care
  • Identifying your level of self-love and expression of love for yourself
  • Finding realistic, achievable ways of expressing love for yourself
  • Holistically engaging self-love and ways we sabotage our relationship


Too often I see people (especially womon) beat themselves up with self-care shoulds, which does the opposite of the purpose of self-care. Just like in any relationship, the way you need to express love for yourself may be different at different times. Identifying where you’re at, meeting yourself there, and taking one supportive step forward will help you build self-confidence and gradually make it easier and more natural to express self-love.

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LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE:
The 5 Love Languages
What’s Your Stress Language Quiz
#3 Understanding Your Stress Language

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